When will misogynistic and homophobic ranting and raving result in meaningful repercussions in the entertainment industry? When will they be treated with the same seriousness as racist and anti-Semitic offenses? While an artist who can barely get a sentence fragment out without using homophobic slurs is celebrated on the cover of every magazine, blog and newspaper, I’m disheartened that any self-respecting human being could stand in support with a message so vile.
As journalists and colleagues defend, excuse and congratulate ‘Tyler, the Creator,’ I find it impossible not to comment. In any other industry would I be expected to tolerate, overlook and find deeper meaning in this kid’s sickening rhetoric? Why should I care about this music or its “brilliance” when the message is so repulsive and irresponsible? There is much that upsets me in this world, and this certainly isn’t the first time I’ve drafted an open letter or complaint, but in the past I’ve found an opinion – some like-minded commentary – that let me rest assured that my outrage, my voice, had been accounted for. Not this time.
If any of the bands whose records are held in similar esteem as Goblin had lyrics littered with rape fantasies and slurs, would they be labeled hate mongers? I realize I could ask that question of DOZENS of other artists, but is Tyler exempt because people are afraid of the backlash? The inevitable claim that detractors are being racist, or the brush-off that not “getting it” would indicate that you’re “old” (or a faggot)? Because, the more I think about it, the more I think people don’t actually want to go up against this particular bully because he’s popular. Who sticks up for women and gay people now? It seems entirely uncool to do so in the indie rock world, and I’ll argue that point with ANYONE.
No genre is without its controversial and offensive characters- I’m not naive. I’ve asked myself a thousand times why this is pushing me over the edge. Maybe it’s the access to him (his grotesque twitter, etc). Maybe it’s because I’m a human being, both a girl and a lesbian. Maybe it’s because my mom has spent her whole adult life working with teenage girls who were victims of sexual assault. Maybe it’s because in this case I don’t think race or class actually has anything to do with his hateful message but has EVERYTHING to do with why everyone refuses to admonish him for that message.
It is not without great hesitation and hand wringing that I enter into the discourse about Tyler, the media who glorifies and excuses misogyny and homophobia, and the community of artists that doesn’t seem remotely bothered by it. I can only hope that someone reading this might be inspired to speak out. At the very least, I will know that my voice is on record.
…but please stop mentioning it every five minutes. It doesn’t make me uncomfortable, it just makes me annoyed. Being gay isn’t your defining factor. You have other qualities that make you who you are, and I love those. I don’t care that you’re gay. I want to hear about the rest of you, because I already know about that part of you.
Normal people probably don’t have this problem, but it is the perfect mundane task for my latent OCD. This is going to be one giant fucking scarf. I’m going to be the biggest knit hipster the world has ever seen.
The Social Network (except for how excited I was when someone said that Jesse Eisenberg was autistic because here’s this totally capable actor kicking ass and defying stereotypes until I found out THAT THEY MEANT IT AS AN INSULT AND SO I CUSSED THEM OUT IN THEIR ASK BOX AND UNFOLLOWED THEM BUT THAT IS ANOTHER STORY ENTIRELY)
Meanwhile, I didn’t even know what the fuck that was until 10 minutes ago. I thought he was the idiot behind those Madea movies and was curious what music written by that ass hat would sound like. Inb4 omg you are racist against black people named Tyler.
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